Ask for Help
U have the blessing of capable friends and family. Ask them for help. In that same way that U feel happy to help your friends and family, they too would love to help U, if only U gave them the opportunity. Consider asking for help a gift U give people, since it allows for a positive sum interaction to occur.
U believe in the power of positive sums, so U ought to market the ways people can help U. U getting help empowers U and makes U more capable of helping others, over time asking for help consistently will create an environment in which your power slowly amplifies.
U also want to lead by example, and since U would like the people around U to ask for help, U ought to ask for help in order to break the ice.