Practice Enjoyment
With enough skill I believe U could enjoy just about anything. U might need a specific perspective to enjoy situations like a funeral, but every moment contains a degree of beauty, gratitude, intensity, some aspect of the human experience that makes life rich even if it seems painful.
To enjoy difficulties sounds hard, so start with enjoying the mundane, the everyday, the "drudgery", the plateaus, the journeys, the practice. These periods make up the vast majority of life so U ought to make the most of them.